How to Use your Hand for your Man’s Pleasure

Most of the times we always rely on our hands to do the job, so why not use it to give our man pleasure. I have collected some techniques on how we could actually hike a man’s mojo by simply touching him. Here are some the techniques you can use.
- Dig that Chest
Nothing more excites a man than a slow circling of your hand in his fine chest, mostly with a new manicured nails. What you can do is to circle you hand tracing his pecs. Spiral your nails towards the nipples then gently pinch it using your thumb and forefinger.
- Tug the Pubic Hair
Begin by pulling some hair in his pubic using both hands gently. Between your middle and index finger give him a few tugs like grooming his hair. This move will interest him the most since the nerves of the penis runs through the groin area making him more aroused as you tug.
- Ear Stimulator
Wet your middle finger using your saliva and slowly trace the outer part of his ear lobe. While you’re there give him a gentle pinch while giving it a sexy tug. The moist in his ear will surely give him the chills and the thrill. This is caused by sensitive aural organs. The reason behind pulling the ear lobe is to trigger the nerves in his ear that could actually send some signal to the testicles making him produce the testosterone, and you know what testosterone can do. Yup, it will rev up the erotic device.
- Spine Thriller
Make him lie on his stomach and pull his legs apart. Using both hands, make a fist and zigzag your knuckles at the arc of his spine. Roll your pinkie and knuckles at the vertebrae from the below to the nape, once you reach the nape, and then slowly trace your nails going down to the spine. The use of the knuckles helps you apply pressure hitting the nerves in his spine. Remember, all the nerves of the body are attached to the nerves of the spinal column. So by doing so, you’re giving him pleasure all over his body increasing his sex drive more and more. Also, by giving a soft and hard rub gives an access to his deep and shallow nerves giving a mix sensation.
- Thigh Expert
You can do this while he is sitting down or lying on his back, what you do is to reach and then slowly walk your middle and index finger from the knees to the crotch. Tease a little and stop before reaching the private part, and then with light trace of S going back to where you started. Doing so can send an alert straight to the climax area. This technique works because there is a nerve running straight from inner thighs to the groin. The S-technique adds some element of surprise.
These some of the few tricks that I can share with you, but I can recommend is to add a little spice to the romance by taking your man in a really romantic and exotic resort. It will surely help you and your man get in to the mood.


Yes, we often forget that men enjoy the sensation of touch as much as women do….
Mmmmm….A few tricks for later tonight…
Thanks for the tips!
Comment by tarabridgetmoore — April 11, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
i just thought i’d let you know Patricia that I enjoyed this blog so much I featured it on my how to love a black woman blog at loveablackwoman.blogspot.com.
I paid big coodles to you and your entire blog because I really enjoyed myself for a good hour.
Thanks for the experience, the tips, the refresher course and reminding me that it takes two to tangle.
Comment by sylviahubbard1 — April 12, 2008 @ 3:34 am
Actually, if a man might make a suggestion, hand-cooked food is wonderful too and something all men appreciate, a bit perhaps like being driven and having doors opened is for women. Perhaps men and women judge each other a bit by how they use their hands in cooking and driving….
Comment by drsubrotoroy — April 12, 2008 @ 8:01 am
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm I’ll bet you were just as turned on as he was by doing this sought of thing to your man,
Lady if you did that to me you would have a night to remember.
Thats for sure, cos its what my wife does to me when she knows I’ve just gotten out of the shower and am towelling off.
She grabs my fur and teases me and then when he arises I sweep her off her feet and carry her to our lucsurious bedroom and make passionate love to her. root on lady well said.
Comment by tassie63 — April 12, 2008 @ 1:13 pm
Personally, I’d hate all of that, especially having one wet ear.
I can think of several ways your hand could give me pleasure, but sticking a wet fingertip in it isn’t one of them
Comment by tsnafu — April 12, 2008 @ 1:27 pm
pull the entire fuckin pubic hair off its roots and we’ll go crazy with pleasure i tell ya.
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