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April 11, 2008

How to Use your Hand for your Man’s Pleasure

Filed under: tips — Tags: , , — patriciaholdenmd @ 3:43 am

Most of the times we always rely on our hands to do the job, so why not use it to give our man pleasure. I have collected some techniques on how we could actually hike a man’s mojo by simply touching him. Here are some the techniques you can use.

  • Dig that Chest

Nothing more excites a man than a slow circling of your hand in his fine chest, mostly with a new manicured nails. What you can do is to circle you hand tracing his pecs. Spiral your nails towards the nipples then gently pinch it using your thumb and forefinger.

  • Tug the Pubic Hair

Begin by pulling some hair in his pubic using both hands gently. Between your middle and index finger give him a few tugs like grooming his hair. This move will interest him the most since the nerves of the penis runs through the groin area making him more aroused as you tug.

  • Ear Stimulator

Wet your middle finger using your saliva and slowly trace the outer part of his ear lobe. While you’re there give him a gentle pinch while giving it a sexy tug. The moist in his ear will surely give him the chills and the thrill. This is caused by sensitive aural organs. The reason behind pulling the ear lobe is to trigger the nerves in his ear that could actually send some signal to the testicles making him produce the testosterone, and you know what testosterone can do. Yup, it will rev up the erotic device.

  • Spine Thriller

Make him lie on his stomach and pull his legs apart. Using both hands, make a fist and zigzag your knuckles at the arc of his spine. Roll your pinkie and knuckles at the vertebrae from the below to the nape, once you reach the nape, and then slowly trace your nails going down to the spine. The use of the knuckles helps you apply pressure hitting the nerves in his spine. Remember, all the nerves of the body are attached to the nerves of the spinal column. So by doing so, you’re giving him pleasure all over his body increasing his sex drive more and more. Also, by giving a soft and hard rub gives an access to his deep and shallow nerves giving a mix sensation.

  • Thigh Expert

You can do this while he is sitting down or lying on his back, what you do is to reach and then slowly walk your middle and index finger from the knees to the crotch. Tease a little and stop before reaching the private part, and then with light trace of S going back to where you started. Doing so can send an alert straight to the climax area. This technique works because there is a nerve running straight from inner thighs to the groin. The S-technique adds some element of surprise.

These some of the few tricks that I can share with you, but I can recommend is to add a little spice to the romance by taking your man in a really romantic and exotic resort. It will surely help you and your man get in to the mood.


  1. Yes, we often forget that men enjoy the sensation of touch as much as women do….

    Mmmmm….A few tricks for later tonight…

    Thanks for the tips!

    Comment by tarabridgetmoore — April 11, 2008 @ 10:34 pm

  2. i just thought i’d let you know Patricia that I enjoyed this blog so much I featured it on my how to love a black woman blog at

    I paid big coodles to you and your entire blog because I really enjoyed myself for a good hour.

    Thanks for the experience, the tips, the refresher course and reminding me that it takes two to tangle.

    Comment by sylviahubbard1 — April 12, 2008 @ 3:34 am

  3. Actually, if a man might make a suggestion, hand-cooked food is wonderful too and something all men appreciate, a bit perhaps like being driven and having doors opened is for women. Perhaps men and women judge each other a bit by how they use their hands in cooking and driving….

    Comment by drsubrotoroy — April 12, 2008 @ 8:01 am

  4. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm I’ll bet you were just as turned on as he was by doing this sought of thing to your man,
    Lady if you did that to me you would have a night to remember.
    Thats for sure, cos its what my wife does to me when she knows I’ve just gotten out of the shower and am towelling off.
    She grabs my fur and teases me and then when he arises I sweep her off her feet and carry her to our lucsurious bedroom and make passionate love to her. root on lady well said.

    Comment by tassie63 — April 12, 2008 @ 1:13 pm

  5. Personally, I’d hate all of that, especially having one wet ear.

    I can think of several ways your hand could give me pleasure, but sticking a wet fingertip in it isn’t one of them

    Comment by tsnafu — April 12, 2008 @ 1:27 pm

  6. pull the entire fuckin pubic hair off its roots and we’ll go crazy with pleasure i tell ya.

    Comment by aniche — April 12, 2008 @ 4:55 pm

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  8. Wanna please your man? Go to the kitchen after you’re finished and make him a sandwich. Don’t say a word. That’s all you need to do.

    Comment by anonymous — May 5, 2008 @ 8:10 pm

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  10. You mean, women touch men past the age of 18?

    Wow . . . .

    What’s it like?

    Comment by Rob — August 14, 2008 @ 4:35 am

  11. Just a few queries in relation to the above suggestions;

    -Dig that chest: I tend to have rather rough hands. Is it still a good idea to continue with this exercise?

    -Thigh expert: What is the private part in this instance?

    Comment by Adriana — January 18, 2009 @ 12:24 am

  12. Did you even think of tickling? I’m a guy and I go bannanas if a girl goes ape on me down there in a tickling frenzy sort of way paying particular attention to the balls, inner thighs, nipples, and I mean, get tickly rough. Pinching and pulling while letting the balls slip out and doing the two finger pinchy thing to attempt to pinch both testicles togther but allow them to slip away. This feels intense and if done while tickling the entire body in a fast random type of crazy tickle while the man is laughing, especially while subdued with ropes, is tantalizingly torturous. Not to mention, devilishly evil.

    Comment by Gary — February 24, 2009 @ 3:15 am

  13. WOW, I thought I was the only one thinking this. I like it when squeezing of the balls is part of the tickling. Not so it feels real bad, just barely painfull. Then move the hands somewhere else and surprise me here and there with a pinch or a squeeze randomly while tickling other places, like the nipples….at the same time….whoa.

    Comment by john — December 23, 2009 @ 4:15 am

  14. well all of that stuff is really good 4 a man, but one other thing get a ice cube and let it melt and drip it on his nipples and if u give him oral put the ice cube in your mouth before you give him head and it will give him multiple sensations.!! Enjoy.

    Comment by saffie — January 2, 2010 @ 12:54 am

  15. holy shit, it sounds like my gf. She llikes to challenge me to wrestling and i start backing off and she slowly comes towards me and says stuff like..”im gonna getcha” and “your balls are mine” and she looks all evil and shit. She lunges at me and i pretend to try and fight her off but i always let her grab me and she loves to get me there. she goes crazy like the guy above. she makes me tell her i love her and asks if i have any other gf’s and squeezes and makes me tell the truth. she pulls on em if i try to get away. i love it!

    Comment by Ed W — May 22, 2010 @ 10:39 am

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